Sound advice

Posted: May 14, 2009 in Old thoughts
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It was a Friday morning lying in bed in my room staring at the ceiling while listening to the radio. A letter was being read, the writer still clings to an old lover, a classic case of meeting someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.

There are lots of whys and could have beens as a result of a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I never heard how it started. Maybe, just that one day she look at the person and saw something more than she did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere, and the person who was just a friend is suddenly the only person she can ever imagine herself with. Or just as crazy as, somebody walked into the room that moment, just like every other moment except this time her heart skipped a beat. Imagine, One stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like smile at you or kissed you or simply, just walked into a room, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. We don’t always recognize the moment love begins, but we always recognize the moment it ends. When this happens you will realize that though love is like heaven, it can hurt like hell.

 Most of the time we asked ourselves why is happiness so elusive? Every day we are in constant search of the things that will bring joy and contentment in our lives. Sometimes we find love only to lose it in the end and when we failed miserably our hearts cry with bitterness trying to find answers for endless questions. You have failed but it doesn’t mean the end of the world we have to realize that when we open our hearts to love there will always be the risk of getting hurt, there’s always a chance of falling flat in our faces. Let the pain you feel make you stronger, don’t give up and have the courage to keep on searching for  the love that will one day fill the empty longing of your heart Even if striving to find it may mean getting hurt again. Its true, having love then failed is better than not having loved at all because those who loved and failed learned, and those who are afraid to love lived in darkness and loneliness everyday of their lives. Be strong, you will find what you’re looking for in time. You just have to believe. Remember only those who are not afraid to take a chance again are only those who discover the love and happiness that they have failed to find.  They are not the ones who cried in self pity but they are those who stood up and try it again…

 

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